Saturday, July 19, 2014

"Hoosier Interviews with Alexaundria Monroe and Mark White!"

I'm so excited to discuss the number of people that are actually working towards their dreams and wanting to create a positive impact in this wild world. The media loves keeping people like us under wraps, and we seldom see people working for change because clouds of negativity sit and follow us daily. I love learning about other people and sharing their steps-to-success stories while fighting back my own clouds. My fighters this week are, again, fellow Indiana Hoosiers. I could throw out 7 handfuls of people from my city doing things, but one day at a time, folks. Alexaundria Monroe, is the first friend and model I have been fortunate enough to interview! Although she and I spent some years growing up together, I stepped onto her runway to learn about what she is up to! Alexaundria Monroe, (Alex or "AG") from South Bend, Indiana is a Mommy, daughter, wife, lead infant teacher at a nursery in Indianapolis, Indiana, and an up and coming model. In May of 2014, Alex graduated from Indiana University Purdue University-Indianapolis (IUPUI) with her Bachelor's in General Studies and a concentration in Social and Behavioral Studies.


Although those who are somewhat familiar with Alex are familiar with her basketball history, she's sharing her modeling aspirations with the world! When I asked Alex how long she'd be modeling for, she replied "I have wanted to model for as long as I could remember. My mother and I would practice my runway walk in our living room, and she would critique me and give me constructive pointers that I could use to better my walk. As time went on, I won Miss Michiana 2005 Pageant. Later, I tried out for America’s Next Top Model back in 2010. When I did not make the cut, I got discouraged and chose to focus on finishing my degree and being a great mother. I figured that once my child was older, and I had a little better focus after I graduated that I could pick it back up and continue where I left off and also, get better. I watch a lot of high end fashion shows for pointers and trends in modeling and in runway walking and that helps me to develop as my own brand. I take what I have learned and make it my own. Every model must have a signature walk and presence about her, and I feel that mine definitely defines who I am. " After learning about various signatures walks and struts, I grew curious and asked Alex if she switched roles or egos when on the runway. "I definitely have an alter ego when I’m on the runway!" Alex stated. "The name was actually given to me by my mother-in-law at my very first fashion show in Indianapolis. Her name is Alexa!! She is sexy, sophisticated and brings fire to the stage in every twist, turn and pose. She IS fierce!" HEYYYYYYYY Alexa, girl! Modeling has a history of displaying various fashions, events, and skin! Alex states that she is going for the "classy yet sassy" model image.
She makes her decisions about what she will model in based on how comfortable she is in reference to the exposure of her body. Having overcome self-image insecurities because of people that passed judgement on her skin complexion and society's skin color ideals ( ugh, don't get me started), Alex feels more comfortable than ever in her very own skin. "I feel that no matter the age, size or build that anyone can model as long as they have the proper training. I mean think about it, the average woman is not walking around looking like Chanel Iman or the average male, Tyson Beckford. The image of modeling is not made to be realistic in my opinion, but that will not discourage me anymore from doing it because modeling is my passion"(Alex Monroe).


After, I asked Alex to fill me in on some of her inspirations and reasons she decided to pursue her goals. Alex replied, "My inspirations vary. I am inspired by my parents, mainly my mother for showing me how to be a strong woman and to always do what I believe in and to never give up, ultimately for supporting all my endeavors and also for teaching me how to be a great mother for my children and wife to my husband. I am inspired by my children because they are blessings from GOD. Through them, he forces me to be a better person and to remember that they are always watching me; therefore I need to always be setting a great example for them to follow. Lastly, I am inspired by my husband, Jaimes Monroe Jr. He was shot back in March of 2014 and underwent ten major surgeries. After almost losing his life three or four times, the Lord saw fit to bring him back to me. He is my inspiration every morning that I wake up and see him next to me because he could have been gone. He inspires me to stay strong and to believe in miracles and that nothing is ever impossible."

While tackling all corners of the field, I was eager to learn about the challenges (if any) Alex has of balancing balancing motherhood, marriage-hood, and her career. "It is definitely a challenge to balance motherhood and wife life into my career. But my husband and I are learning to better communicate with one another so that eases the pressure slightly. It is always going to be a mental thing because models can be on a shoot or casting for hours at a time, and communicating with your spouse is mandatory to ensure them first off, that you are safe and secondly that you will be home as soon as you can. As far as motherhood, I hate being away from my babies for too long, so when I get home I make sure to love on them as much as I can and we sing dance and play and interact with each other as much as possible. I keep a open communication line with my children as well, although my daughter is only one, I let her and my five year old son voice whatever opinions or feelings that they have about mommy modeling and I will ultimately make the decision if I need to take a slight break for the sake of them feeling a disconnect, then I will."

I later asked Alex, "What is your dream???" Alex responded, "My ultimate dream is to become a high fashion world renowned model, runway or print. I have been studying fashion since I was a little girl. My mother used to model and seeing her transform into this fashionista with attitude and flare up on that stage made me want to do it also. My goal is to be able to make it to where I want to go, without giving up any of my morals and values. I believe that money is the root of all evil, but also, it’s about the person and their will to be stronger than those temptations. After conquering my goal of modeling, I have dreams of opening a modeling school for girls called 'Ru-Marie’s'. The name is inspired by my late grandmother Ruby Lee Pittman, and my mother Dawn Marie Woods".


Have you NOT seen Mrs. Monroe hit her walk down that runway?? Get on it and study it because she could just be the next big thing who will be instructing YOU on the rules of the runway!

Want to stay in touch with Alex?? Like her model Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Alexaundria-Monroe-Model-Page/514869661969796

Our next star is one of Indiana University at South Bend's finest and most handsome (word from his fans) basketball players and accounting majors, Mark White. White has been a Titan point-guard and shooting-guard for almost three years, and has been playing basketball since the fourth grade. Although White is unsure as to what he'd like to do upon completion of his studies because of his love for basketball and the possibility of him playing ball overseas, he continues striving while approaching all aspects of his goals and success. White keeps his focus on his love for basketball' " I just love the game and I want to stay apart of it" he adds.

Keep a look out as always!!!

With Realness,

B. Elae

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

"The Absence of Child Protective Services, What Dr. Lipschitz Was REALLY On, and The Rugrats"

     So, we all ( I mean we ALL) know 90's cartoons were the BEST of the best cartoons ever created- even with the subliminal messages and questionable actions between some of the characters in the shows...like Ren and Stimpy. ANYWAY, I was watching "Rugrats" the other night, and I was just enjoying the heck out of it. Seeing Tommy break out and lead the way, Phil and Lil dig in their belly buttons (don't front like you never checked yours), Angelica (who probably now has a health issue with her sugar) selfishly boss the children around while carrying (an obviously abused-yet appreciated- and in need of a lace-front...or hair-cut) Cynthia, Susie CarMichael keeping the peace, Chuckie searching for peace, and Spike! Just hearing the intro song pretty much put me in a good mood. As I was watching Tommy take his little screw driver, unlock the fence, and lead the gang out to take on their mission of the day, I started thinking, "Where was CPS???" I mean, DANG!!! Is there an episode where the children didn't break out? Grandpa Lou was usually the care taker and he was usually far too gone in a nap (in one episode he had a date with one of his hunnies though...mmhmm), and they STILL left the kids with him. Angelica's parents were far too occupied in the work field (and felt the stress of their child) and weren't the greatest at balancing time spent with their daughter, so they compensated their absences with gifts. SN: We never knew what Angelica's Mom was drinking in that fancy little mug either! I'm not making assumptions though. She was out there handling business and working her way to the top, but some of the parents had some issues. I'm pretty sure Stu suffered from seasonal depression too.

      Back to CPS...I'm surprised Chuckie's dad or his Step-mom (in the later episodes) didn't call CPS on the Pickles, but they were probably too scared. Looks like Grandpa Lou and Drew may have had some hands on them...definitely not Stu though. Didi rode Dr. Lipschitz to the moon and back, and you think he would have helped her get some control, but naahh. He was such an unreliable doctor! I think he had a crush on Didi...hmm. Matter of fact, there were other kids on the show that that needed CPS involvement as well, but they kept CPS on the low...so we could dream. So we could think that we were as crafty as Tommy, that those cookies tasted as good as they looked, and that we'd be able to experience the adventures they did...until reality hits. We thought nothing of CPS as kids. But now, I'm grown, wearing glasses like Didi (except in black), STILL wanting those cookies, and wishing I had the adventures now that the Rugrats had then. I'm not even mad they dodged CPS; I'm mad  I couldn't break out of the gate like Tommy.

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With Realness,

B. Elae

Thursday, July 10, 2014

"Viagra's Freedom, Contraception, and That Hobby Lobby Case"

     In case you aren't familiar with the Burwell v. Hobby Lobby case (the Hobby Lobby case is totally not 

new) , allow me to provide a very brief summary with limited detail. Basically, as of June 30, 2014, in the

Supreme Court's 5-4 ruling, it was decided that "requiring family-owned corporations to pay for insurance

coverage for contraception under the Affordable Care Act violated federal 

law protecting religious freedom" Adam Liptak, Supreme Court Rejects Contraceptive Mandate for 

Some Corporations Justices Rule in Favor of Hobby Lobby, http://www.nytimes.com/2014/7/01/us/hobby-

lobby-case-supreme-court-contraception.html). So, really, in the boxing ring, we have morals (that are 

different for different people), limitations, the Affordable Care Act, business collision, power over people

and Religious Freedom Restoration ActTensions rise (even more) after learning that companies will still 

offer health care for vasectomies and Viagra. 


HUH?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Although this case and issue is not new, it still possesses the ability to ignite various 
emotions and responses as if it is. It can be perceived as a battle of practicing religious freedoms and rights, but the battle with control over women, women's rights and their freedoms, power, and opinions are present as well...and it's blatantly obvious. Not only are our practices, beliefs, and opinions about what it "right" and "wrong" different among us all, but opinions about women, our "appropriate" and "inappropriate" decisions, and actions vary as well. Why people are so focused on controlling or judging someone else's decisions under certain subjects when we all have to answer for our own choices as believers or not???? I have no clue...BUT, I posted an inquiry relating to the Hobby Lobby case on one of my social network pages, remained silent, and allowed people to share their opinions. Check them out:



MY QUESTION (JUNE 30, 2014):

"I would like to know how you feel about businesses/places of employment regulating portions of medical care. How do you feel about the Hobby Lobby ruling? Upset? Disappointed? Torn? Think it's fair? Don't care at all? "

VARIOUS ANSWERS FROM NETWORK FRIENDS: 

"To me a decision about birth control should be left to a woman & spouse and her physician...but that's just me tho..."- Noah S.


 "Yes, This is a tough one but in my personal opinion healthcare coverage or supplies should not be limited. I'm with Obama that organizations should not make that choice for women. They should be able to make their own decision. That's like me going into business for myself and I feel like unwed mothers shouldn't receive coverage because its against my religion. Even though its against my religion I can't limit the healthcare to these mothers and stopping them from getting proper care for their unborn babies. A organization is supposed to look out for their employees no matter what religion the company represents. That's just my opinion".- Nikia R.


 "I believe these decisions have more to do with political quarrels than anything. However, I'm Pro-Life so I'm typically against birth control, which would make me biased. This is simply a protest to and/or loop hole to the new health care laws. However, it's tough to take a stance without the particulars".- Despo Nation


 I will write up my input for u. I am strongly against the ruling but for simple and good reasons.- Ashley H.Totally against the ruling. So many reasons. Very upset about the precedent for future cases that this sets.- Bridget J.


 "My opinion on ruling is as follows: WTF???????????? THIS IS BULLSHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I, AND EVERY OTHER WOMAN ON THIS PLANET, DESERVE TO BE COVERED AND GIVEN ACCESS AND THE RIGHT TO HAVE CONTROL OVER MY OWN BODY!!!! OH BUT I AM SURE THAT FUCKING VASECTOMIES AND VIAGRA WILL BE COVERED!!!!!!!!! FUCK THIS DAMN SEXIST PATRIARCHAL SOCIETY!!!! ONE DAY WOMEN AND ALL THE PROGRESSIVE MEN WILL GET FED UP PAST THEIR LIMIT AND YOU WILL BE SORRY!!!!!!!!!! WE DESERVE EQUAL PAY, EQUAL COVERAGE, EQUAL OPPORTUNITY REGARDLESS OF SEX, GENDER, RELIGION!!!!!! WHY IS IT SO HARD TO CONCEIVE THE NOTION OF THE REALITY THAT WE ARE ALL EQUAL HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?????????????????????????". Dominique B.


I think it's bull crap and I believe this is just a way for them to hide behind "religious beliefs" for many reasons. I believe it's because politics, money, and a form of "enforcing their power" under those so called beliefs.I believe that their insurance still covers vasectomies right? Smh"-Jessica D.


" RFRA bipartisan already dealt with this".- Sandra S.


I just wanted to share them without my input because...well...sometimes, other opinions and emotions are needed, and regardless of my opinion, I respected theirs. Our opinions may vary, but, think about it...all of it.Is it possible to please everyone in reference to equality? Was control over a groups of individuals the main focus? Was this to stand against Obamacare? Should businesses regulate which aspects medical care pays for? What about various religion practices? Just random thoughts...

With Realness,

Bee Elae


http://www.nytimes.com/2014/07/01/us/hobby-lobby-case-supreme-court-contraception.html


http://www.supremecourt.gov/opinions/13pdf/13-354_olp1.pdf


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/06/30/hobby-lobby-viagra_n_5543916.html

http://www.cleveland.com/open/index.ssf/2014/07/us_supreme_court_orders_recons.html